{"id":94800,"date":"2026-01-15T15:37:45","date_gmt":"2026-01-15T14:37:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/?p=94800"},"modified":"2026-01-15T15:37:45","modified_gmt":"2026-01-15T14:37:45","slug":"shba-nuk-na-ndeshkon-na-tregon-kush-jemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/?p=94800","title":{"rendered":"SHBA nuk na nd\u00ebshkon, na tregon kush jemi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Nga Fejzo Subashi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ne jemi nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri e edukuar pa kultur\u00eb, nj\u00eb komb q\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrron m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa punon, q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb marr\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa jep, q\u00eb i m\u00ebshon pa limit t\u00eb drejt\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, duke harruar p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat e lirit\u00eb e tjet\u00ebrit dhe shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Pra, ne nuk jemi t\u00eb varf\u00ebr n\u00eb edukat\u00eb. Jemi t\u00eb varf\u00ebr n\u00eb kultur\u00eb qytetare. Dhe kjo varf\u00ebri nuk sh\u00ebrohet me \u00ebndrra, por me p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi, e cila duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb si qytetare dhe si shoq\u00ebri. Nuk nd\u00ebrtohet jeta duke kthyer syt\u00eb nga qielli. Nuk nd\u00ebrtohet as kombi, as dinjiteti, as e ardhmja, duke pritur vet\u00ebm nga shteti, vet\u00ebm se je shtetas. Nuk b\u00ebhesh amerikan apo europian as me asistenc\u00eb, as me hile, as me pun\u00eb t\u00eb pista e t\u00eb paligjshme. Me k\u00ebt\u00eb mend\u00ebsi nuk je thjesht barr\u00eb p\u00ebr vendin ku ke status emigranti; je problem edhe p\u00ebr kombin t\u00ebnd, p\u00ebr bashkatdhetar\u00ebt e tu dhe p\u00ebr brezat q\u00eb vijn\u00eb pas teje.<br \/>\nNdoshta nuk do t\u2019u vij\u00eb mir\u00eb shum\u00ebkujt, por vendimi i SHBA-s\u00eb p\u00ebr pezullimin e vizave \u00ebsht\u00eb i drejt\u00eb, i vonuar dhe i domosdosh\u00ebm. Dhe po, ky vendim do t\u00eb ndiqet edhe nga vende t\u00eb tjera europiane, sepse problemi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb Amerika apo Europa , se problemi jemi ne.<br \/>\nNe jemi nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb krenohet me \u201cedukat\u00ebn\u201d, por ka munges\u00eb serioze t\u00eb kultur\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme. Dhe k\u00ebtu \u00ebsht\u00eb nyja. Edukata \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb element i kultur\u00ebs, jo vet\u00eb kultura. Mund t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh bukur, t\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndes\u00ebsh me mir\u00ebsjellje, t\u00eb ulesh drejt n\u00eb karrige dhe prap\u00eb t\u00eb mos kesh kultur\u00eb qytetare, ligjore, pune, p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie dhe bashk\u00ebjetese.<br \/>\nNe jemi \u00ebnd\u00ebrrimtar\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj. \u00cbndrrat tona shpesh i kalojn\u00eb hap\u00ebsirat, mund\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe kapacitetet reale q\u00eb kemi. Nuk ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe t\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrrosh, por e keqe \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mos pranosh kufijt\u00eb e realitetit dhe t\u00eb refuzosh rrug\u00ebn e gjat\u00eb t\u00eb pun\u00ebs, disiplin\u00ebs dhe sakrific\u00ebs. Ne duam rezultatin, jo procesin. Duam suksesin, jo mundimin. Duam statusin, jo p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb.<br \/>\nM\u00eb shpesh kopjojm\u00eb sesa nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb. Kopjojm\u00eb modele q\u00eb nuk i kuptojm\u00eb, stile jete q\u00eb nuk i p\u00ebrballojm\u00eb dhe role q\u00eb nuk i kemi fituar. N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb zgjedhim mund\u00ebsin\u00eb reale p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, zgjedhim shkurtoren, mashtrimin, justifikimin. Dhe kur d\u00ebshtojm\u00eb, sepse kjo ndodh shpesh, p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb nuk e k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb te vetja, por gjithmon\u00eb diku tjet\u00ebr: te shteti, te qeveria, te Amerika, te Europa, te fati, te \u201ct\u00eb k\u00ebqinjt\u00eb\u201d. Po, po, qeverit\u00eb dhe klasa politike kan\u00eb faj dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi t\u00eb madhe. Por \u00ebsht\u00eb hipokrizi e past\u00ebr t\u00eb flasim vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr ta, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb si individ\u00eb sillemi nj\u00ebsoj: k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb p\u00ebrfitim pa merit\u00eb, rregulla pa respektuar rregullat dhe t\u00eb drejta pa pranuar detyrime. Ne e mbajm\u00eb veten p\u00ebr patriot\u00eb, por patriotizmin e kemi reduktuar n\u00eb postime n\u00eb Facebook, flamuj virtual\u00eb dhe fjal\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha boshe. N\u00eb praktik\u00eb, shum\u00eb prej nesh e d\u00ebmtojn\u00eb imazhin e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Vendimi i pezullimit t\u00eb vizave nga SHBA, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebshkim ndaj shqiptar\u00ebve, apo Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb pasqyr ku duhet t\u00eb shikohet secili nga ne. Dhe ajo pasqyr\u00eb nuk na p\u00eblqen, se na tregon ashtu si jemi, si dukemi n\u00eb realitet dhe nuk na tregon ashtu si duam. Derisa t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb se nuk ka integrim pa disiplin\u00eb, nuk ka liri pa p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi dhe nuk ka dinjitet pa pun\u00eb, \u00e7do der\u00eb e mbyllur do ta quajm\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsi. N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb pasqyra jon\u00eb. Dhe pasqyrat nuk kan\u00eb faj, ato vet\u00ebm tregojn\u00eb. Jemi gati ta thyejm\u00eb pasqyr\u00ebn si fajtore q\u00eb nuk na p\u00eblqen sh\u00ebmb\u00eblltyra, e megjith\u00ebse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb realiteti.<br \/>\n\u00c7far\u00eb integrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb ai kur edhe pas dhjet\u00ebra vitesh jetese jasht\u00eb, e quan veten ende \u201cemigrant\u201d, jo qytetar? \u00c7far\u00eb integrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb ai kur vjen n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri dhe sillesh si zot i vendit, apo ti je zeusi, nd\u00ebrsa kur ik\u00ebn mbush thas\u00ebt me mish t\u00eb that\u00eb, gjiz\u00eb, djath\u00eb, vaj, qep\u00eb e domate, sikur po largohesh nga nj\u00eb zon\u00eb lufte? A nuk ndjen turp kur k\u00ebto thas\u00eb hapen n\u00ebp\u00ebr doganat e Europ\u00ebs?<br \/>\nA \u00ebsht\u00eb i padrejt\u00eb vendimi i SHBA-s\u00eb, kur ende pa mb\u00ebrritur atje, madje pa u nisur, b\u00ebhen premtime groteske, betime boshe dhe mburrje qesharake se \u201cdo marr gjith\u00eb fisin, me ku\u00e7 e me ma\u00e7\u201d, sikur Amerika \u00ebsht\u00eb pron\u00eb jote private? Dhe kur mb\u00ebrrin atje, synimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb integrimi, puna e ndershme dhe respekti p\u00ebr ligjin, por dollari i shpejt\u00eb dhe asistenca.<br \/>\nM\u00eb keq akoma, disa duan t\u00eb b\u00ebhen brenda dit\u00ebs \u201cpadron\u00eb\u201d, \u201ct\u00eb fort\u00eb\u201d, \u201ct\u00eb par\u00ebt e qytetit\u201d, duke u zhytur n\u00eb pun\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb pista t\u00eb mundshme. Kjo sjellje ka minimizuar imazhin e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe ka zbehur pun\u00ebn, sakrific\u00ebn dhe dinjitetin e atyre shqiptar\u00ebve q\u00eb me merit\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb em\u00ebr dhe na kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb krenar\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00eb.<br \/>\nPrandaj, pezullimi i vizave nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb problem. Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb kultura jon\u00eb e p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb. Derisa t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb se nuk b\u00ebhesh qytetar i bot\u00ebs pa qen\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb qytetar i vetes dhe i vendit t\u00ebnd, \u00e7do der\u00eb q\u00eb mbyllet do t\u00eb na duket padrejt\u00ebsi. N\u00eb fakt, \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht pasoj\u00eb. Dhe pasojat, her\u00ebt a von\u00eb, gjithmon\u00eb vijn\u00eb, don apo nuk d\u00ebshiron ti.<br \/>\nTiran\u00eb m\u00eb 15.01.2026.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Fejzo Subashi Ne jemi nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri e edukuar pa kultur\u00eb, nj\u00eb komb q\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrron m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa punon, q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb marr\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa jep, q\u00eb i m\u00ebshon pa limit t\u00eb drejt\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, duke harruar p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat e lirit\u00eb e tjet\u00ebrit dhe shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Pra, ne nuk jemi t\u00eb varf\u00ebr n\u00eb edukat\u00eb. 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