{"id":91631,"date":"2025-09-25T19:02:12","date_gmt":"2025-09-25T17:02:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/?p=91631"},"modified":"2025-09-25T19:02:37","modified_gmt":"2025-09-25T17:02:37","slug":"cmenduri-shqiptare-vendimi-i-mire-por-shoqeria-e-zhveshur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/?p=91631","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7menduri Shqiptare: Vendimi i mir\u00eb, por shoq\u00ebria e &#8220;Zhveshur&#8221;.."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Nga Fejzo Subashi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fillim viti m\u00ebsimor, m\u00eb n\u00eb fund erdhi nj\u00eb vendim i drejt\u00eb , i duhur dhe i domosdosh\u00ebm i Qeveria Rama. Ky vendim synon dhe ka lidhje me statur\u00ebn, nivelin, performanc\u00ebn e standardit t\u00eb m\u00ebsuesve. Kjo jo vet\u00ebm n\u00eb lidhje me p\u00ebrgatitjen dhe n\u00eb dije, por edhe n\u00eb imazhin, paraqitje dhe statur e tij\/a. Qeveria Rama mori nj\u00eb vendim t\u00eb drejt\u00eb q\u00eb synon: q\u00eb m\u00ebsuesit t\u00eb jen\u00eb figura dinjitoze, jo karikatura t\u00eb shembjes morale. Dhe v\u00ebrtet, sot sheh nj\u00eb m\u00ebsuese q\u00eb t\u00eb mbush me respekt: veshje t\u00eb thjeshta, Sot ndjehesh mir\u00eb, jo vet\u00ebm si prind, por edhe si qytetar, kur sheh m\u00ebsueset n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb me paraqitjen dhe prezenc\u00ebn e tyre. Veshur thjesht, me shije, me dinjitet, t\u00eb cilat tregojn\u00eb kultur\u00eb dhe fisnik\u00ebri. Rrezatojn\u00eb cil\u00ebsi dhe vlera n\u00eb lidhe me statur\u00ebn, performanc\u00ebn dhe rolin e m\u00ebsuesit\/s. Jep besim dhe garanci p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00ebnd. Jep shpres\u00eb p\u00ebr qytetarin p\u00ebr vendin. Jep siguri t\u00eb madhe se, edukimi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb tallje, por mision i madh jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb af\u00ebrmin, apo prindin, por p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, t\u00eb ardhmen e nes\u00ebrme t\u00eb Vendit.<\/p>\n<p>Por ky vendin , a \u00ebsht\u00eb i arrir\u00eb , a ikin sikletet dhe stresi p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn vet\u00ebm besimin te vendimi dhe zbatimi i tij nga armata e m\u00ebsuesve? Absolutisht jo! Sepse sapo del jasht\u00eb oborrit, realiteti t\u00eb p\u00ebrplas si shuplak\u00eb nj\u00eb panoram\u00eb q\u00eb l\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebshiruar. Oborri e shkoll\u00ebs e shikon se \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb podium vulgariteti. E \u00e7far\u00eb vlere ka ky vendim, kur m\u00ebsuesja p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb ngjall\u00eb respekt, t\u00eb jap imazh me shpres\u00eb dhe besim, nd\u00ebrsa oborri i shkoll\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb pasarel\u00eb turpi, ku \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebshtir\u00eb t&#8217;iu thuash parcela, apo pasarel\u00eb mode! K\u00ebtu vendimi, jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk e arrin pritshm\u00ebrin\u00eb, pot d\u00ebshton.<br \/>\nE turp\u00ebshme kur shkon t\u00eb \u00e7osh f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, apo kur i merr nga shkolla dhe p\u00ebrballesh me nj\u00eb realitet tjet\u00ebr, ku shef: Jo vet\u00ebm prind\u00ebr model e t\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtuar dhe q\u00eb japin shembull p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb, fatkeq\u00ebsisht, sheh prind\u00ebr me statusin e n\u00ebn\u00ebs, hall\u00ebs, motr\u00ebs, tezes apo kush\u00ebrir\u00ebn , t\u00eb zhveshura sikur kan\u00eb dal\u00eb nga nj\u00eb klub nate e jo nga sht\u00ebpia p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn. I shef me; Byth\u00ebt jasht\u00eb. Barku jasht\u00eb. Gjoksi jasht\u00eb. Jo thjesht dekolte, por nj\u00eb zhveshje pa asnj\u00eb veshje n\u00eb trup. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb turp dhe \u00e7m\u00ebndur shqiptari, jo qasje dhe sjellje prindi. Aq m\u00eb pak prind i denj\u00eb e prind Shqiptar. M\u00ebsuesi mundohet t\u00eb m\u00ebsoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn kultur\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa prindi i sheh sy m\u00eb sy dhe i jep modelin e kund\u00ebrt: \u201cLakuriq b\u00ebhesh m\u00eb e lakmuar, jo m\u00eb e respektuar, aq m\u00eb pak me dije\u201d. Dhe fatkeq\u00ebsisht f\u00ebmija m\u00ebson m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga imazhi i s\u00eb keqes, sesa nga libri i s\u00eb mir\u00ebs. Pra, \u00e7\u2019vler\u00eb ka nj\u00eb vendim i qeveris\u00eb kur shoq\u00ebria \u00ebsht\u00eb zhveshur nga \u00e7do dinjitet? Si mund t\u00eb ngrihet nj\u00eb brez i sh\u00ebndosh\u00eb, kur prindi jep shembullin e prostitucionit moral? Dhe a mund t\u00eb presim q\u00eb shkolla t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, kur familja i dor\u00ebzon te dera e saj me turpin n\u00eb duar?<br \/>\nMe k\u00ebt\u00eb vendin t\u00eb Qeveris\u00eb Rama menduan se; prind\u00ebrit dhe shoq\u00ebria jon\u00eb shp\u00ebtoj nga ekzeplar t\u00eb modeleve t\u00eb k\u00ebqija t\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebsuesi, si dhe m\u00ebsuesit shp\u00ebtuan nga banaliteti i dikursh\u00ebm, por fatkeq\u00ebsisht f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb nuk po shp\u00ebtojn\u00eb dot nga imazhet e s\u00eb keqes. Nga modelet e degraduara, nga prind\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrm mediok\u00ebr, t\u00eb pa pap\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm. Nga prind\u00ebr e t\u00eb af\u00ebrm q\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb ngjasojnl me ata t\u00eb rrug\u00ebs. Me prind\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrm, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt e mbajn\u00eb veten p\u00ebr moderne, apo si pjesa moderne e komunitetit, por n\u00eb realit jan\u00eb llumbi i shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Prind\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrm, t\u00eb cilat japin nj\u00eb m\u00ebsim m\u00eb t\u00eb keq t\u00eb mundsh\u00ebm, m\u00eb t\u00eb keq se \u00e7farp mund t\u00eb jap \u00e7do lib\u00ebr apo art i k\u00ebsaj gjinie p\u00ebr d\u00ebshtim i nj\u00eb shkolle.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb realitet, \u00e7far\u00eb vlere ka nj\u00eb vendim qeverie sado i mir\u00eb e domosdosh\u00ebm qoft\u00eb, kur shoq\u00ebria vet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb d\u00ebshtim? Si do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet edukimi i brezit t\u00eb ri, kur m\u00ebsuesja predikon etik\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa prindi jep shembullin e kund\u00ebrt? Dhe kush e mban p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb absurditet t\u00eb p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm shqiptar? Nj\u00eb absurditet q\u00eb i ka pasojat, si p\u00ebr k\u00ebta e k\u00ebto mostra prind\u00ebrish dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmish, por dhe p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb. Ku m\u00eb e keqja, kur nes\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk do jen ata q\u00eb duan dhe d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb k\u00ebta mostra prindrish dhe t\u00eb af\u00ebrmish, ata do ja l\u00ebn\u00eb fajin Qeveris\u00eb dhe Shtetit.<br \/>\nK\u00ebshtu q\u00eb sa do vendime t\u00eb mira t\u00eb marr\u00eb nj\u00eb qeveri, kur ndeshen dhe p\u00ebrballen me \u00e7udirat e tilla, ato jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb humbasin misionin, por d\u00ebshtojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Fejzo Subashi N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb fillim viti m\u00ebsimor, m\u00eb n\u00eb fund erdhi nj\u00eb vendim i drejt\u00eb , i duhur dhe i domosdosh\u00ebm i Qeveria Rama. Ky vendim synon dhe ka lidhje me statur\u00ebn, nivelin, performanc\u00ebn e standardit t\u00eb m\u00ebsuesve. Kjo jo vet\u00ebm n\u00eb lidhje me p\u00ebrgatitjen dhe n\u00eb dije, por edhe n\u00eb imazhin, paraqitje dhe [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":87273,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34865,6332,29228],"tags":[38265,36132,38266],"class_list":{"0":"post-91631","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-analiza","8":"category-te-fundit","9":"category-vendi","10":"tag-cmenduri-shqiptare-vendimi-i-mire","11":"tag-fejzo-subashi","12":"tag-por-shoqeria-e-zhveshur"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91631","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=91631"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91631\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":91633,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91631\/revisions\/91633"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/87273"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=91631"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=91631"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=91631"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}