{"id":91128,"date":"2025-09-08T15:13:47","date_gmt":"2025-09-08T13:13:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/?p=91128"},"modified":"2025-09-08T15:13:47","modified_gmt":"2025-09-08T13:13:47","slug":"per-ty-bija-ime-qe-nis-sot-klasen-e-pare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/?p=91128","title":{"rendered":"P\u00ebr ty bija ime, q\u00eb nis sot klas\u00ebn e par\u00eb\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Nga Fejzo Subashi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E dashur\u00a0Aja, bija jon e vog\u00ebl dhe e vetme, sot nuk mund ta fsheh emocionin e madh q\u00eb m\u00eb pushton. \u00cbsht\u00eb po aq i thell\u00eb sa ai \u00e7ast kur t\u00eb mbajta p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb krah\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb nuk i fsheha dot lot\u00ebt, por u p\u00ebrpoqa t\u2019i fshihja nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<br \/>\nSot dua t\u00eb qesh dhe t\u00eb qaj nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht prej g\u00ebzimit, por nuk dua q\u00eb ti t\u00eb m\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n<p>Sot ti nuk po fillon thjesht shkoll\u00ebn, as nuk po hyn vet\u00ebm n\u00eb klas\u00ebn e par\u00eb. Sot ti hedh hapin e par\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, her\u00eb sfidues, her\u00eb i bukur, por mbi t\u00eb gjitha i domosdosh\u00ebm, bija ime.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrfunduar me sukses k\u00ebt\u00eb udh\u00ebtim do t\u00eb duhen shum\u00eb; pun\u00eb, besim, dashuri, p\u00ebrkushtim, forc\u00eb, energji, mb\u00ebshtetje dhe kuraj\u00eb. Mos harro: ti nuk do t\u00eb jesh kurr\u00eb vet\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb \u00e7do hap, n\u00eb \u00e7do \u00e7ast, do t\u00eb na kesh pran\u00eb \u2013 ne, prind\u00ebrit e tu, dhe m\u00ebsuesit e tu. Ne do t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb \u00e7mos q\u00eb ti t\u00eb qesh\u00ebsh edhe kur ndihesh e m\u00ebrzitur, sepse besojm\u00eb shum\u00eb tek ti. Kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb lejojm\u00eb q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb qesh\u00eb me ty.<\/p>\n<p>Ti duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh t\u00eb ec\u00ebsh p\u00ebrpara duke menduar sikur nuk ka padrejt\u00ebsi. Por realisht, fatkeq\u00ebsisht nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, sepse jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb si ti.<\/p>\n<p>Ne dhe m\u00ebsuesja jote nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb mbajm\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrdore, por do t\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb si t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh; jo me forc\u00eb, por me but\u00ebsi dhe durim. Jo vet\u00ebm sepse je ende e brisht\u00eb (n\u00eb fakt, gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn do t\u00eb jesh e brisht\u00eb), jo vet\u00ebm sepse je Aja jon\u00eb dhe e dashura e zemr\u00ebs, por sepse k\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh njeriu q\u00eb ti dhe ne d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jesh.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb fillim do t\u00eb kesh vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb m\u00ebsuese, por rrug\u00ebs do t\u2019u bashkohen shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. D\u00ebgjoji me v\u00ebmendje, respektoji edhe kur mund t\u00eb mos jen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb me ty. Dua q\u00eb t\u00eb jesh e fort\u00eb dhe me karakter.<\/p>\n<p>Mos ki frik\u00eb t\u00eb thuash t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn dhe mos lejo kurr\u00eb q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb shkel\u00eb mbi ty.<br \/>\nShkolla nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shesh me lule, por as nj\u00eb shesh lufte. Do t\u00eb kesh shok\u00eb e shoqe, miq e mikesha, por edhe njer\u00ebz q\u00eb ndoshta nuk t\u00eb duan t\u00eb mir\u00ebn, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs, bija jon\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Shpresoj q\u00eb konkurrenca dhe egoizmi midis bankave t\u00eb klas\u00ebs t\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsohen nga mir\u00ebsia dhe bujaria\u2026 e n\u00ebse nuk i gjen tek t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, tregoje ti e para. Jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb do jen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, apo t\u00eb drejt\u00eb me ty, por ti gjithmon\u00eb sillu mir\u00eb me ta, ashtu si do doje t\u00eb silleshin ata.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse dikush p\u00ebrgjigjet m\u00eb mir\u00eb se ti, mos u b\u00ebj xheloze, por m\u00ebso dhe tejkaloje, sepse askush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb e as m\u00eb pak se ti.<br \/>\nFillimisht do t\u00eb udh\u00ebtosh n\u00eb flet\u00ebt e abetares, mes g\u00ebrmave dhe ngjyrave, e m\u00eb pas n\u00eb shum\u00eb libra t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Aty do t\u00eb gjesh arom\u00ebn e \u00ebmb\u00eblsirave, freskin\u00eb e detit, flladin e maleve, k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e loj\u00ebrave, magjin\u00eb e mrekullin\u00eb e udh\u00ebtimeve.<\/p>\n<p>Aja, nd\u00ebrsa shkruan, i lutem Zotit t\u00eb ndiesh k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e shkum\u00ebsit mbi tabel\u00eb. Bija ime, nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi edhe n\u00ebse do t\u00eb b\u00ebsh gabime, sepse kur korrigjohen i kupton dhe at\u00ebher\u00eb ato nuk p\u00ebrs\u00ebriten m\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Shpirti im, d\u00ebshira m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb jesh e para e klas\u00ebs, sepse k\u00ebshtu mbase do t\u00eb jesh gjithmon\u00eb timonierja e jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde, q\u00eb nes\u00ebr do t\u00eb rend\u00ebsh p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur t\u00eb ardhmen t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb bukur, m\u00eb beso Princesha ime, kur t\u00eb arrish t\u00eb shkruash fjalin\u00eb t\u00ebnde t\u00eb par\u00eb sakt\u00eb. M\u00ebso fjal\u00eb e fjali t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, bija ime, me ngjeshje t\u00eb bashk\u00ebting\u00eblloreve, me dhe pa \u00eb-n\u00eb fundore, por qofshin fjal\u00eb zemre, t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta, fjal\u00eb ndjese, urimi, fal\u00ebnderimi, ndryshimi&#8230;<br \/>\nJam i sigurt q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebsh krenar, sepse je bija m\u00eb e mir\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb baba mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb. Un\u00eb frymoj dhe jetoj p\u00ebr ty!<\/p>\n<p>D\u00ebshiroj me gjith\u00eb shpirt t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh me vete g\u00ebzimin dhe d\u00ebshir\u00ebn ton\u00eb, e t\u2019i bashkosh me entuziazmin, energjin\u00eb, zgjuarsin\u00eb, men\u00e7urin\u00eb dhe fantazin\u00eb t\u00ebnde, n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn q\u00eb sapo nise.<\/p>\n<p>E di q\u00eb nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00ebse ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb jesh e ndrojtur apo fjal\u00ebpaka. Besom\u00eb, ndrojtja jote, ashtu si entuziazmi, p\u00ebr mua \u00ebsht\u00eb dhurat\u00eb, mos e harro k\u00ebt\u00eb kurr\u00eb!<\/p>\n<p>Dashuria jon\u00eb p\u00ebr ty \u00ebsht\u00eb e pakufishme. T\u00eb uroj jo vet\u00ebm k\u00ebto q\u00eb shkrova k\u00ebtu, por shum\u00eb e shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjera. Zemra ime shpreson, k\u00ebrkon dhe d\u00ebshiron shum\u00eb p\u00ebr ty, por mbi t\u00eb gjitha dua qet\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00ebnde.<\/p>\n<p>K\u00ebt\u00eb urim t\u00eb shkruar vendosa ta b\u00ebj publik, pa mir\u00ebkuptimin t\u00ebnd; p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj ndjes\u00eb. Por dua q\u00eb ky urim sot t\u2019i shkoj\u00eb gjith\u00eb vog\u00eblush\u00ebve q\u00eb, si ti, p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb fillojn\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn.<\/p>\n<p>Dua t\u00eb uroj edhe gjith\u00eb armat\u00ebn e m\u00ebsuesve q\u00eb kan\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen tuaj dhe t\u00eb Kombit Shqiptar.<br \/>\nUrime nga babi yt, q\u00eb t\u00eb do pa mas\u00eb.<br \/>\nTiran\u00eb, 8 Shtator 2025<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Fejzo Subashi E dashur\u00a0Aja, bija jon e vog\u00ebl dhe e vetme, sot nuk mund ta fsheh emocionin e madh q\u00eb m\u00eb pushton. \u00cbsht\u00eb po aq i thell\u00eb sa ai \u00e7ast kur t\u00eb mbajta p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb krah\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb nuk i fsheha dot lot\u00ebt, por u p\u00ebrpoqa t\u2019i fshihja nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. 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