{"id":88172,"date":"2025-06-06T14:19:34","date_gmt":"2025-06-06T12:19:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/?p=88172"},"modified":"2025-06-06T14:19:34","modified_gmt":"2025-06-06T12:19:34","slug":"kur-edhe-psikologet-kane-nevoje-per-psikolog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/?p=88172","title":{"rendered":"Kur edhe psikolog\u00ebt kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr psikolog"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Nga Fejzo Subashi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, asgj\u00eb nuk kalon pa sherre, sa tani do na b\u00ebnte p\u00ebrshtypje n\u00ebse nj\u00eb event do mbaronte pa nj\u00eb fenomen t\u00eb till. Sherrit dihet q\u00eb nuk l\u00eb mang\u00ebt as politika, as sporti, as kisha, as xhamia, as dasma, bile as funerali\u2026 dhe tani m\u00eb s\u00eb fundmi, as Urdhri i Psikologut. Mesa duket, edhe ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb trajnuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb rregullojn\u00eb brendin\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb trazuar, kan\u00eb harruar t\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me t\u00eb tyren.<\/p>\n<p>Ironia \u00ebsht\u00eb ther\u00ebse: kur profesionist\u00ebt e sh\u00ebndetit mendor p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb n\u00eb grindje, akuza, ambicie dhe thirrje p\u00ebr p\u00ebrjashtime, at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk kemi m\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb me nj\u00eb \u201cUrdh\u00ebr Psikolog\u00ebsh\u201d, por me nj\u00eb kaos kolektiv neurotik t\u00eb certifikuar me vul\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb ofrojn\u00eb nj\u00eb shembull t\u00eb institucioneve t\u00eb qeta, t\u00eb men\u00e7ura, t\u00eb balancuara, duket se edhe k\u00ebta jan\u00eb kapur nga virusi i p\u00ebrhersh\u00ebm shqiptar: lufta p\u00ebr karrige, p\u00ebr egon personale dhe p\u00ebr kontrollin mbi nj\u00eb struktur\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebr momentin ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb status simbol sesa funksion real.<\/p>\n<p>A ka ndonj\u00eb kuptim t\u00eb flasim p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndet mendor n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri ku vet\u00eb psikolog\u00ebt kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nd\u00ebrhyrje emergjente t\u00eb grupit t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjes? A mund t\u2019i besosh nj\u00eb institucioni q\u00eb nuk arrin t\u00eb rregulloj\u00eb vetveten, por pretendon t\u00eb rregulloj\u00eb mendjet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve?<\/p>\n<p>Kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje profesionale, por kulturore. Ne jemi nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb e kemi kthyer sherrin n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb komunikimi, mosbesimin n\u00eb baz\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunimi dhe kriz\u00ebn n\u00eb normalitet. Dhe ky normalitet i kalbur dep\u00ebrton ngadal\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7do hallk\u00eb t\u00eb institucioneve, edhe n\u00eb ato q\u00eb duhej t\u00eb ishin m\u00eb rezistente ndaj s\u00ebmundjeve t\u00eb sistemit.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb fund t\u00eb dit\u00ebs, nj\u00eb pyetje mbetet pezull:<br \/>\nKush do t\u2019i sh\u00ebroj\u00eb sh\u00ebruesit?<br \/>\nSepse n\u00ebse edhe ata bien n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat gropa ku bien politikan\u00ebt, jurist\u00ebt, inxhinier\u00ebt dhe pronar\u00ebt e kafeneve, at\u00ebher\u00eb e vetmja gj\u00eb q\u00eb na mbetet \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201curdh\u00ebr popullor\u201d p\u00ebr t\u2019u marr\u00eb me gjith\u00eb k\u00ebta urdhra q\u00eb urdh\u00ebrojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr\u00e7arje.<br \/>\nTiran\u00eb m\u00eb 06.06.2025.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Fejzo Subashi N\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, asgj\u00eb nuk kalon pa sherre, sa tani do na b\u00ebnte p\u00ebrshtypje n\u00ebse nj\u00eb event do mbaronte pa nj\u00eb fenomen t\u00eb till. Sherrit dihet q\u00eb nuk l\u00eb mang\u00ebt as politika, as sporti, as kisha, as xhamia, as dasma, bile as funerali\u2026 dhe tani m\u00eb s\u00eb fundmi, as Urdhri i Psikologut. Mesa [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":87273,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34865,6332],"tags":[36550],"class_list":{"0":"post-88172","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-analiza","8":"category-te-fundit","9":"tag-kur-edhe-psikologet-kane-nevoje-per-psikolog"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88172","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=88172"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88172\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":88173,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88172\/revisions\/88173"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/87273"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=88172"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=88172"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=88172"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}