{"id":86871,"date":"2025-04-26T09:09:05","date_gmt":"2025-04-26T07:09:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/?p=86871"},"modified":"2025-04-26T09:09:05","modified_gmt":"2025-04-26T07:09:05","slug":"nese-je-grua-ti-e-di-qe-per-ty-po-flitet-shume-keto-dite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/?p=86871","title":{"rendered":"N\u00ebse je grua, ti e di q\u00eb p\u00ebr ty po flitet shum\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Nga Dojna Mema:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si shtylla e familjes, si heroin\u00eb, si themel i shoq\u00ebris\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Me z\u00eb t\u00eb but\u00eb, me tone t\u00eb \u00ebmbla, me premtime t\u00eb m\u00ebdha.<\/p>\n<p>Sepse po afron 11 maji.<\/p>\n<p>Dhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ast, ti nuk je m\u00eb thjesht grua. Je nje vot\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Por un\u00eb dua t\u00eb flas p\u00ebr ty pas 11 majit.<\/p>\n<p>Kur telefoni nuk bie m\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb thirrur n\u00eb miting.<\/p>\n<p>Kur askush nuk t\u00eb pyet si je.<\/p>\n<p>Kur fytyra jote nuk del m\u00eb n\u00eb poster.<\/p>\n<p>Sepse pas 11 majit, ti kthehesh te lodhja, te stresi, te heshtja.<\/p>\n<p>Kthehesh n\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb, nj\u00eb mot\u00ebr, nj\u00eb pun\u00ebtore, gjithmon\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb \u2013 edhe kur s\u2019ke m\u00eb fuqi.<\/p>\n<p>Ti q\u00eb mban barr\u00ebn e gjith\u00eb familjes mbi supe.<\/p>\n<p>Q\u00eb mbush frigoriferin.<\/p>\n<p>Q\u00eb kujdesesh p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, dhe harron veten.<\/p>\n<p>Q\u00eb nuk ke koh\u00eb t\u00eb merresh me \u00e7far\u00eb veshin deputetet, sepse lufton t\u00eb arrish fundin e muajit.<\/p>\n<p>Por, ti nuk g\u00ebnjehesh m\u00eb nga njer\u00ebz q\u00eb vishen bukur.<\/p>\n<p>Sepse ti e di vota nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje shijeje.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dekor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb pesha e gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs q\u00eb ti mban mbi supe.<\/p>\n<p>Ai q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00eb vot\u00ebn, e ka kuptuar si t\u00eb t\u00eb flas\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Flet bukur. Me ndjenja dhe metafora.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb fushat\u00eb, ai t\u00eb quan \u201cshenjtore t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebris\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndet me fraz\u00ebn \u201cPa ty nuk funksionon ky vend\u201d<\/p>\n<p>dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrcjell me: \u201cMos harro t\u00eb m\u00eb votosh.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sepse ai e di q\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment, mund t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesh e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme.<\/p>\n<p>Dhe ai moment i mjafton \u2013 \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti i vot\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Pastaj?<\/p>\n<p>M\u00eb 12 maj ti zhdukesh nga radari i politik\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>Kthehesh te hallet. Te rroga q\u00eb nuk mjafton. Tek familjar\u00ebt q\u00eb presin duke t\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb sy. Te urdh\u00ebrat e mbrojtjes, q\u00eb nuk i respekton kush.<\/p>\n<p>Sepse kur nj\u00eb grua vritet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb vend, nuk ka m\u00eb fjalime. Nuk ka m\u00eb konferenca. As kamera. Ka vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr lajm te shkurt\u00ebr, nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr heshtje m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ironia \u00ebsht\u00eb kur ju k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb bindni burrat t\u00eb votojn\u00eb \u201csi\u00e7 duhet\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb jeni komandante \u2013 nj\u00eb dit\u00eb n\u00eb kat\u00ebr vjet.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb mbani pesh\u00ebn e zgjedhjeve, pa marr\u00eb asgj\u00eb nga ajo q\u00eb vjen pas.<\/p>\n<p>Por ti nuk je komandante fushate.<\/p>\n<p>Ti nuk je buz\u00ebqeshje p\u00ebr kamera.<\/p>\n<p>Ti nuk je dekor.<\/p>\n<p>Ti je grua.<\/p>\n<p>Dhe forca jote \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb nuk i dhunon votat. Nuk i shantazhon njer\u00ebzit. Nuk luan me emocionet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p>Ti je ende aty \u2013 kur fushata mbaron.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb dyert e institucioneve. N\u00eb spitale. N\u00eb kuzhina. N\u00eb pun\u00ebra pa orar.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb heshtje. N\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje. N\u00eb vuajtje.<\/p>\n<p>Dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar k\u00ebt\u00eb vend, nuk ke nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb bind\u00ebsh ask\u00ebnd.<\/p>\n<p>Mjafton t\u00eb votosh p\u00ebr veten.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr dinjitetin t\u00ebnd.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr jet\u00ebn q\u00eb meriton edhe pas 11 majit.<\/p>\n<p>Sepse n\u00ebse dashuria matet me vot\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuri.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb respekt.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cbsht\u00eb marketing.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Dojna Mema: Si shtylla e familjes, si heroin\u00eb, si themel i shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Me z\u00eb t\u00eb but\u00eb, me tone t\u00eb \u00ebmbla, me premtime t\u00eb m\u00ebdha. Sepse po afron 11 maji. Dhe p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ast, ti nuk je m\u00eb thjesht grua. Je nje vot\u00eb. Por un\u00eb dua t\u00eb flas p\u00ebr ty pas 11 majit. Kur telefoni [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":86872,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34865,6332],"tags":[35985,35983,35984],"class_list":{"0":"post-86871","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-analiza","8":"category-te-fundit","9":"tag-dojna-mema","10":"tag-nese-je-grua","11":"tag-ti-e-di-qe-per-ty-po-flitet-shume-keto-dite"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86871","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=86871"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86871\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":86873,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86871\/revisions\/86873"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/86872"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=86871"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=86871"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=86871"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}