Nj\u00eb grua 50-vje\u00e7are ka folur p\u00ebr ‘vitin e saj t\u00eb arg\u00ebtimit’ duke fjetur me dhjet\u00ebra burra pasi u divorcua nga burri i saj, i cili ishte i vetmi burr\u00eb me t\u00eb cilin kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb seks.<\/p>\n
Kate Harvey ishte e martuar me burrin e saj p\u00ebr 25 vjet,\u00a0 duke rritur tre f\u00ebmij\u00eb s\u00eb bashku n\u00eb Melburn.<\/p>\n
Por muaj para goditjes s\u00eb pandemis\u00eb Covid, ajo zbuloi se ai kishte pasur nj\u00eb lidhje.<\/p>\n
Pasi kaloi dy vjet e gjysm\u00eb duke u p\u00ebrballur me traum\u00ebn e prishjes s\u00eb martes\u00ebs dhe duke mb\u00ebshtetur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj, ajo ishte gati t\u00eb niste p\u00ebrs\u00ebri jet\u00ebn dhe tani thot\u00eb se ka pasur deri n\u00eb 12 partner\u00eb q\u00eb nga janari i vitit t\u00eb kaluar.<\/p>\n
“Un\u00eb ndalova s\u00eb num\u00ebruari pas nj\u00eb kohe,”<\/em>\u00a0tha ajo.<\/p>\n Nd\u00ebrsa disa nga ‘miqt\u00eb e saj me p\u00ebrfitime’ erdh\u00ebn nga aplikacionet e takimeve, ajo ka takuar t\u00eb tjer\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn reale.<\/p>\n \u201cM\u00eb i riu me t\u00eb cilin kam fjetur ishte 28 vje\u00e7 dhe m\u00eb i madhi ishte 48\u201d,<\/em>\u00a0tha zonja Harvey.<\/p>\n ‘Pika ime e \u00ebmb\u00ebl \u00ebsht\u00eb nga 38 deri n\u00eb 44 vje\u00e7.’<\/em><\/p>\n Zonja Harvey, e cila punon si pronare biznesi, shkrimtare dhe aktore me koh\u00eb t\u00eb pjesshme, tha se seksi dhe seksualiteti \u201cnuk ishin prioritet\u201d p\u00ebr t\u00eb kur ajo ishte e martuar.<\/p>\n Ajo tha se nd\u00ebrsa marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia e saj seksuale me burrin e saj ishte ‘arg\u00ebtuese dhe p\u00ebrmbush\u00ebse nganj\u00ebher\u00eb’, ajo tani po fokusohej n\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb donte t\u00eb eksploronte.<\/p>\n \u201cGj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla si loja e ashp\u00ebr dhe loja me role dhe p\u00ebrdorimi i lodrave m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur me dik\u00eb me t\u00eb cilin jeni n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie afatgjat\u00eb\u201d,<\/em>\u00a0tha ajo.<\/p>\n \u201cDjemt\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb rinj jan\u00eb mjaft n\u00eb form\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mund t\u00eb t\u00eb marrin dhe t\u00eb t\u00eb shtyjn\u00eb pas murit dhe t\u00eb t\u00eb hedhin n\u00eb shtrat.<\/em><\/p>\n N\u00eb jet\u00ebn time personale dhe profesionale, un\u00eb jam p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebse, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb bukur t\u00eb heq\u00ebsh dor\u00eb nga ai kontroll dhe t\u00eb jesh i kontrolluar dhe i dominuar nga tjetri\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n Zonja Harvey tha se ajo nuk ka m\u00eb asnj\u00eb interes p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjekur nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie afatgjat\u00eb monogame.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nj\u00eb grua 50-vje\u00e7are ka folur p\u00ebr ‘vitin e saj t\u00eb arg\u00ebtimit’ duke fjetur me dhjet\u00ebra burra pasi u divorcua nga burri i saj, i cili ishte i vetmi burr\u00eb me t\u00eb cilin kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb seks. Kate Harvey ishte e martuar me burrin e saj p\u00ebr 25 vjet,\u00a0 duke rritur tre f\u00ebmij\u00eb s\u00eb bashku n\u00eb Melburn. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":56794,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,7664,6332],"tags":[22220,22221],"class_list":{"0":"post-56793","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-bota","9":"category-te-fundit","10":"tag-cudit-50-vjecarja-ne-nje-vit-kam-shkuar-me-12-burra","11":"tag-me-ndihmoi-te-kaloja-traumen-e-ndarjes-pas-tradhetise"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56793","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=56793"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56793\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/56794"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=56793"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=56793"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jugulajm.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=56793"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}